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See below for frequently asked questions about STD's.

  • What are STDs?
  • How do STDs Spread from Person to Person?
  • What can be done about STDs?
  • What are the Symptoms?
  • How can I protect myself from getting an STD?

Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs) are serious, sometimes painful diseases that can cause a lot of damage to you and your health. Some STDs infect your sexual and reproductive organs. Other STDs, such as HIV, Hepatitis, Herpes, and syphilis, cause severe general infections throughout your body.

Many STDs don't have symptoms - or they're too minor to notice. A lot of people wait for symptoms to appear before they get concerned. An STD can remain unless it is found and treated, with or without symptoms.

The only way to know for sure if you have an STD is to get tested. It's important to know that there's no lifelong protection if you've had an STD or been treated for one. You can get infected again and again.

STD's are spread during close, sexual activity and during vaginal, anal, and oral sex. Some STDs (HIV and Hepatitis B and C) are also spread by contact with infected blood. Most STD germs live in warm, moist areas. That's why they most often infect the mouth, rectum, and sex organs (vagina, vulva, penis, and testes).

If you think you might have an STD, you need to get checked. Don't just hope it will go away, because it won't!

It may be embarrassing or uncomfortable for you to go to a doctor or clinic for help. But you must get treatment, no matter how hard it is for you to do. This is the only way you will get well.

You must also tell your sexual partner(s) that you have an STD. If you have an STD, your partner(s) must get tested and treated, too. If your partner isn't treated, they can get sick. Your partner can also spread the STD to others. 

Some people have no symptoms. If you do have symptoms, you may notice any of the following:

Symptoms that women may notice

  • An unusual discharge or smell from your vagina
  • Pain in your pelvic area
  • Burning or itching around your vagina
  • Irregular vaginal bleeding
  • Pain deep inside your vagina when you have sexual intercourse 
Symptoms that men may notice
  • A drip or discharge from your penis
  • Sores, bumps, or blisters near your sex organs, rectum, or mouth
  • Burning and pain when you urinate or have a bowel movement
  • Need to urinate often
  • Itching around your sex organs
  • A swelling or redness in your throat
  • Flu-like feelings, with fever, chills, and aches
  • Swelling in your groin - the area around your sex organs

If you have any of these symptoms, go to an STD clinic or to your own health care provider. If you have an STD, don't have sex until your treatment is complete. 

  • Use a latex condom for vaginal, anal, and oral sex.
  • Having sex with only one uninfected partner who has only had sex with you is also safe.
  • Talk to your partner about past sex partners and about any IV (needle) drug use.
  • Then, before you have sex, look closely at your partner for any signs of STD - a rash, a sore, redness, or discharge. If you see anything that you are worried about, don't have sex!
  • Get checked for STDs regularly if you are sexually active. We can help you decide how often and what tests you should have.
  • Know the signs and symptoms of STDs. If you notice a symptom that worries you, get checked.

Hearing the news that you've contracted an STD can be a devastating blow both physically and emotionally. With all the thoughts racing through your mind, the toughest one to grasp will no doubt be telling your partner the news so they can get tested. If you're having trouble finding the words to say, visit inSPOT.org. (Please note clicking the link will open a new window outside of DOH-Bay's website)